The course

7 modules, 63 lessons, 4½ hours of video

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A welcome to the course and how to use it: no deadlines, no targets, just a way into the framework.

1 lesson36 min of video
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  1. Welcome and how this course works (1 min read + video)

Module 1: Understanding Autistic Experience: A Relational, Ecosystemic View

Begin with a shift in worldview: how monotropism, the double empathy problem, the ever-changing Autistic self, lilipadding and Autistic culture explain what is often mistaken for difficulty.

8 lessons39 min of video
  • See Autistic attention, communication and identity from the inside
  • Replace "how do we change them?" with "how do they experience the world?"
  • Understand why many "problems" are really mismatches between people and environments
See the 8 lessons
  1. Introduction to this module (2 min read + video)
  2. Monotropism: Understanding Autistic Attention (2 min read)
  3. The Double Empathy Problem: Communication is Mutual (3 min read)
  4. The Autistic Self: Living in Constant Transformation (2 min read)
  5. Lilipadding: Navigating Life Through Islands of Safety (1 min read)
  6. Autistic Culture: A Community (1 min read)
  7. The Foundation for Everything That Follows (1 min read)
  8. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 2: Identity, Language, and Disability Models: Reclaiming Autistic Selfhood

Explore identity-first language, neurodivergence as a socio-political identity, why functioning labels harm, and how the social model and neuronormativity shape everyday life.

12 lessons67 min of video
  • Choose language that respects Autistic identity
  • Question functioning labels and diagnosis as gatekeepers
  • Understand low-demand approaches and why belonging comes before behaviour
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  1. Introduction to this module (1 min read + video)
  2. Identity-First Language: Naming Ourselves on Our Own Terms (1 min read)
  3. Neurodivergence as a Socio-Political Identity, Not a Diagnostic Category (1 min read)
  4. Functioning Labels: Tools of Normativity, Not Understanding (2 min read)
  5. The Social Model of Disability: Where the Real Barriers Live? (2 min read)
  6. Next Steps: Moving Beyond the Social Model of Disability (2 min read)
  7. Neuronormativity: The Hidden Architecture of Society (1 min read)
  8. Why Low-Demand Approaches Support The Whole Family (2 min read)
  9. The Politics of Diagnosis: Who Gets to Belong? (1 min read)
  10. Identity in Motion: The Autistic Self and the Fluidity of Becoming (1 min read)
  11. Belonging Before Behaviour (1 min read)
  12. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 3: Sensory and Emotional Landscapes: Interoception, Regulation, and the Bodymind

Meet the eight-sense world, including interoception and alexithymia, and learn why overload, stimming, co-regulation and safe retreat are regulation, not misbehaviour.

11 lessons27 min of video
  • Recognise the eight senses and how each can show up differently
  • Read sensory overload as a nervous-system signal, not defiance
  • Build a sensory-competent home and daily life
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  1. Introduction to this module (2 min read + video)
  2. The Eight-Sense World (9 min read)
  3. Why It Matters To Understand Sensory Systems (5 min read)
  4. Understanding Sensory Overload: When the World Gets Too Loud (1 min read)
  5. Interoception: The Hidden Key to Autistic Emotional Experience (1 min read)
  6. Co-Regulation: Calm Is Contagious When It Is Safe (1 min read)
  7. Stimming: Regulation, Not a Problem to Eliminate (1 min read)
  8. Nesting and Safe Retreat: The Right to Leave the World Behind (1 min read)
  9. The Sensory–Emotional Loop: Why Everything Connects (1 min read)
  10. Towards a Sensory-Competent Family Life (1 min read)
  11. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 4: Autistic Play, and Ways of Learning: Honouring Flow, Curiosity, and Connection

Discover why Autistic play looks different, why repetition is meaningful, and how interest-led, low-pressure learning supports flow, connection and emotional safety.

9 lessons55 min of video
  • Value Autistic play, repetition and interests
  • Take the co-regulating adult role with confidence
  • Redefine what success looks like
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  1. Why Autistic Play Looks Different (and Why That’s a Good Thing) (1 min read + video)
  2. Monotropism: The Engine of Autistic Play and Learning (2 min read)
  3. Repetition Is Meaningful, Not Pointless (1 min read)
  4. Interest-Led Learning Is Not a Reward System (1 min read)
  5. Parallel Play, Solitary Play, and Autistic Sociality (1 min read)
  6. The Role of the Co-Regulating Adult (1 min read)
  7. Play, Learning, and Emotional Safety (1 min read)
  8. Reframing Outcomes: What Success Really Looks Like (1 min read)
  9. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 5: Burnout, Overload, and the Crisis of Connection

Understand Autistic burnout as an ecosystemic crisis of connection: how it shows up, how it differs from tiredness, how AuDHD changes it, and how reconnection heals.

7 lessons26 min of video
  • Spot burnout early, including atypical presentations
  • Understand the three forms of loss
  • Support recovery through reconnection, not pressure
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  1. Introduction to this module (2 min read + video)
  2. The Ecosystem of Burnout: Beyond Individual Explanations (2 min read)
  3. Atypical Burnout: When Burnout Doesn’t Look “Burnt Out” (1 min read)
  4. Burnout as Disconnection: The Three Forms of Loss (3 min read)
  5. Burnout and AuDHD: When Two Attentional Styles Collide (1 min read)
  6. Healing Burnout: Reconnection as the Core Practice (2 min read)
  7. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 6: Trauma, Safety, and the Emotional Environment: Rebuilding the Conditions for Autistic Thriving

See how cumulative sensory, relational and systemic trauma shapes the nervous system, and how boundaries, predictability and a trauma-informed emotional environment rebuild safety.

7 lessons29 min of video
  • Understand trauma as an ecosystemic experience
  • See boundaries as protective, not punitive
  • Build safety as the foundation of everything
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  1. Introduction to this module (1 min read + video)
  2. Trauma as an Ecosystemic Experience (4 min read)
  3. The Role of Burnout in Trauma (1 min read)
  4. Why Boundaries Are Protective, Not Punitive (1 min read)
  5. Building a Trauma-Informed Emotional Environment (2 min read)
  6. Safety as the Foundation of Everything (1 min read)
  7. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Module 7: Learning From Autistic Community: Culture, Connection, and Collective Wisdom

Learn from Autistic culture, collective knowledge and relational ethics, and imagine a future of co-creation, dignity and neurodivergent thriving.

8 lessons
  • Value Autistic community as a living archive of knowledge
  • Learn relational ethics from Autistic spaces
  • Connect families to community, and to a future of belonging
See the 8 lessons
  1. Introduction to this module (3 min read)
  2. Collective Knowledge: The Autistic Community as a Living Archive (1 min read)
  3. Learning Relational Ethics From Autistic Spaces (1 min read)
  4. Autistic Community as a Source of Healing and Resistance (1 min read)
  5. Why Families Need Autistic Community Too (1 min read)
  6. Co-Creation: The Future of Neurodivergence Competence (1 min read)
  7. Toward a Future of Connection, Dignity, and Neurodivergent Thriving (1 min read)
  8. Reflections and shared understanding (3 min read)

Threads that run through every module

Reducing demandsHonouring focused interestsSensory protectionCo-regulationIdentity affirmationHome, education, healthcare and work

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